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Lucy Felthouse's avatar

Good for you! I wrote my dissertation on erotic fiction, which seemed an odd choice to many, but it led me to where I am now, and I'm happy, so *shrugs*.

Lloyd's avatar

I've read several of your books, Lucy, you are an awesome author! I'm glad you followed your dream as well!

Lucy Felthouse's avatar

Thank you, Lloyd, that's so lovely of you to say! That's made my day :)

Di's avatar

Congratulations and good for you! Wonderful you followed your passion.

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Di, we just sent you a DM - you won a copy of Lauren Marie Fleming's romance novel Because Fat Girl!

Tawny Lara's avatar

Learning your story is the perfect way to start my day! I had a very similar experience with creating a niche about a topic I’m obsessed with: Sober Sex. I even spent years interviewing sober adult entertainers, sharing their stories to destigmatize both sex work and addiction recovery while showing that sober sex can bring liberation in countless ways.

The rejection I faced by studying/pitching my niche makes me nearly impervious to rejection now. Rejection is part of the writing process. I’ll definitely share your 33 Asks course with my writing students and clients.

I salute you and your hustle, Lauren! Keep dancing ✨

Lloyd's avatar

Lauren, thank you for writing this interesting article and being an example of someone pursuing her dream as well as succeeding at it!

Could I trouble you to explain something to me? There's a phrase you wrote that I'm unsure what it means, but I would like to. The phrase is "The way obscenity laws adversely affect marginalized groups for the activists". I would understand it if it said "The way obscenity laws affect activists for the marginalized groups", and perhaps that's what you meant, but if not, I'll learn something from your explanation. Thanks.

Rosana Francescato's avatar

Love this! Good for you for sticking to doing what you loved.

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Rosana, we just sent you a DM - you won a copy of Lauren Marie Fleming's romance novel Because Fat Girl!

Rosana Francescato's avatar

What a lovely surprise — thank you!!

Marla Grant's avatar

Priceless. I salute you.

Theresa Flynn Gray's avatar

Cool story and love that you embraced the joy of dancing around or away from naysayers. I'm in San Diego too! Thanks for sharing and have a great day. :)

Flash Light / Suzanne Miller's avatar

Oh, the dancing! I'm transported to a better place with that image forever in my head.