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Kristy Larsen's avatar

Thank you for recommending my article! I really appreciate it.

I really enjoyed your story. The ring disappearing twice, first as a loss and then as a relief, says more about the marriage than any direct statement could. It's almost like the universe sends us these messages before we're ready to hear them ourselves.

Janine Agoglia's avatar

I agree. My body knew before my mind was ready to accept that it was over. Losing the ring definitely sealed the deal for me.

Jennifer Silva Redmond's avatar

What a great story. I saw the places because you wrote so visually. Beautiful writing...you expressed your truth.

Janine Agoglia's avatar

Thanks Jennifer, I'm glad it came through that way for you. It was a tough one to write, but I am glad I did.

Jennifer Silva Redmond's avatar

I cam well imagine that.

Georgina de Glanville's avatar

It’s amazing how sometimes your feelings know the truth before you’re quite ready to admit it to yourself. The fact that you lost the ring and suddenly realised you didn’t care says absolutely everything. 🌹

Janine Agoglia's avatar

Exactly. The mind can be slow to pick up on what the body already knows.

Elly Marie (she/her)'s avatar

Loved this story and related to how we can change our attachment to objects over time. Thank you for including my last post in your list of links - most appreciated.

Suzanne J Lawson's avatar

Thank you for sharing this, so profound and how we connect our lives with an object. I never had an engagement ring, but loved my platinum and gold wedding band with with tiny diamonds. I sold it - used the money to pay for boiler to be serviced 😁 needs must!

Janine Agoglia's avatar

It was important to me until it wasn't. We don't realize the symbols we carry until they don't mean anything anymore. Sorry you had to sell your ring, but I get it!

Suzanne J Lawson's avatar

ahh it was just sitting there in the jewellery box annoying me! ha ha ha

Janine Agoglia's avatar

Then it was great you put it to better use!

Kim Smyth's avatar

Sad about the ring (it sounded gorgeous) and the marriage.

I prefer TaiChi to yoga but you gotta do you!

Janine Agoglia's avatar

It was a beautiful ring. Especially the original one.

There's no reason you can't do both!