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Kimberly Angle's avatar

The power in this essay is rooted in your courageous honesty and ability to retain a sense of humor through it all. Hope-giving, heart-warming, and informative all at the same time! I want to read more of your essays. Please keep writing and sharing! ❤️

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Dianne Moritz's avatar

Your love and care shines through this essay in every word. The things you have done with your sons is a remarkable example of living life to the max. Both are blessed to have you for a mother. Your focus looks bright and clear for Kai's and your further exploits!!

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Body On Loan's avatar

It was touching and hilarious the things you thought Kai might miss. When I read your article, I thought of “The Country of the Blind,” by ANdrew Leland because of how he described his stages of blindness and how his vision has changed. Thank you for this read.

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Kim Owens's avatar

Thank you! Andrew’s book is excellent. He wrote a blurb for my upcoming book about raising my blind son.

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Body On Loan's avatar

Well, I am looking forward to reading your story. Andrew’s book was wonderful, especially how the history was woven into the story of how he evolved as his sight narrowed.

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Kim Owens's avatar

Thank you!

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A Long Story's avatar

I know it’s not even in the same universe and not one even Buzz and pals could reach, but when our beagle lost his eyes over a weekend to rocky mt spotted fever, the ophthalmologist, an otherwise stern practical woman, lit up when I told her I’d just become a massage therapist. “ Feeling, smelling, tasting and listening are gonna be Bailey’s world, You’re ready for this! Try not to act like the world has ended because he’s in anew one and wants and needs you there with him!” Well, we we werent quite there yet, but her reminder to shift to what remained, and not what was lost has been a refrain for me through so much trauma and grief. And Bailey never missed a beat — or treat. love this essay.

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Kim Owens's avatar

Interesting that I was a certified massage therapist, too! We do have a unique way of experiencing the world. I’m happy Bailey continued to thrive.

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Karin Gillespie's avatar

I loved this so hard! It shines with humor and poignancy.

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Sydney Lea's avatar

This is a courageous and heartwarming story-- who'da thunk you could salt some laughs into the situation too?

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Diane's avatar

Kim, thank you for sharing so honestly. Beautiful ❤️

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