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Michelle Gurule on Being a Sugar Baby and How Sex Work Nearly Destroyed Her Health

The author of memoir ‘Dear John’ discusses how and why she got into being a sugar baby, the health impact of sex work, her writing process, and receiving both criticism and support

Here’s our interview with Michelle Gurule, author of the memoir Thank You, John, discusses becoming a stripper and sugar baby as a young woman, the migraines she suffered through as a result of sex work, why she decided to write about her sex work experience, the criticism and support she’s received, her healthy journey post-sex work, and more.

You can read a transcript of our interview by clicking the icon that looks like a page with writing on it, to the left of the closed captions.

Find out more about Michelle at michellegurule.com and follow her at @michelle__gurule on Instagram.

Read Michelle’s essay, “Hiding My Life as a Sex Worker Nearly Destroyed My Health.”

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Hiding My Life as a Sex Worker Nearly Destroyed My Health

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December 1, 2025
Hiding My Life as a Sex Worker Nearly Destroyed My Health

The first time I had a migraine with aura, I was 24. It came on suddenly, just a few days after I met John, a 55-year-old strip club patron who tipped me $400 and invited me out to a compensated dinner. At that time, nobod…

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