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Changing My Hair Color Used to Be an Act of Rebellion. Now I Know It Means So Much More
When I decided to dye my blonde locks brown in the midst of a painful divorce, I realized the act of changing my hair was less about defiance and more…
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Object-ives #31: Heartwood: How My Humble Cutting Board Came to Speak Louder Than Words
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My Tattoos Are More Than Art
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I Wrote a Polyamory Memoir. You’ve Probably Never Heard of Me
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Why I Love the Scandalous Women Who Changed My Life
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Object-ives #30: J’Adore My Anorak of Armor
In 1990, I blew some grant money on a J.Crew anorak; 36 years later it’s still protecting me from all the elements
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The Best of Both Worlds. Or Is It?
How “Hannah Montana” made me realize I was masking my anxiety
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Object-ives #29: What Price Nostalgia? $495 Plus Shipping
The heartbreak of a discarded concert T-shirt
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Truth Hurts: I’m a Cheapskate
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How his ADHD permanently impacted our marriage
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The Year I Spoke with Chris Evans
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