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Object-ives #50: My 1990 Fugazi Ticket Stub
Why I’ve held onto this musical memento for so long
21 hrs ago
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Molly McCloy
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I Thought I Was In Love With My Roommate. I Wanted To Be Her.
Decades later, a social media surprise reminded me I had become the woman I once wished I could be
Sep 3
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Kristin Amico
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Object-ives #49: The Ring That Started and Ended a Marriage
What I learned about my relationship when I lost my wedding ring
Aug 28
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Janine Agoglia
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Lessons Learned During a Year of Radical Pleasure and Beyond
Athena Dixon on a retrospective of pleasure
Aug 26
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Athena Dixon
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My First Sex Party
On trying to check my mom hat
Aug 25
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Dhana Musil
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Object-ives #48: The Case for Pillows
How my family’s pillowcases carry the threads of our legacy
Aug 21
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Elizabeth Surlin Gordon
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Object-ives #47: White Noise
On bread baking and blow dryers
Aug 14
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Caroline M. Grant
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September 2026 Book Club Pick: 'Portrait of a Mestiza' by Marianna Marlowe
Join us October 1 at 8:30 p.m. ET for a live interview with Marianna Marlowe about identity, culture, family, and home
Aug 12
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Open Secrets Magazine
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Marianna Marlowe
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The Awkward Psychic
I’ve written an entire book on astrology. It’s too bad I’m a little scared of it
Aug 10
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Johanna Gohmann
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Volunteering With Dogs Who Die
The honor, the joys, and the grief I share with others
Aug 8
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Emmy Favilla
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Object-ives #46: Losing What She Touched
When is a ring more than a ring?
Aug 7
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Naomi Bindman
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Having a Drink with My Father
On missed conversations and regret
Aug 4
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Neil Serven
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