Relationships

What I Talk About When I Talk About My Neurodivergent Husband

How his ADHD permanently impacted our marriage

Mar 31 • Lori Tucker-Sullivan

March 2026 Open Secrets Book Club Pick: ‘sorry i keep crying during sex’ by Jesse James Rose

Join us March 24 at 7 p.m. ET for a live interview with author, actor, and content creator Jesse James Rose

Mar 16 • Open Secrets Magazine

The Sourdough Starter I Named After My Ex

How baking bread became a queer ritual to transform, wait, and give myself the food I deserve

Feb 22 • Charlene Trino

I Traveled the World Looking for Love. I’m Still Looking.

Since writing about being single at 33, the search hasn’t changed—even as the scenery has.

Feb 14 • Sonya Matejko

Object-ives #22: My Heavy Metal Companion

An intimate prized possession that will never be an heirloom

Feb 13 • Open Secrets Magazine

My Two Decades Dating as a Late-in-Life Virgin

On learning to receive love

Feb 10 • Amanda McCracken

Truth Hurts: Delete Your Dating Apps

Our columnist answers the question “How did you meet your wife?”

Feb 4 • John DeVore

My High School Boyfriend Gave Me a Sex Ultimatum

I’m now in my mid-forties, but I still have no idea what I want sexually

Feb 3 • Open Secrets Magazine

Why I Share My Sex Life on the Internet

Jesse James Rose on sex education and shame reduction via social media

Feb 2 • Jesse James Rose

The Gun That Exploded My Marriage

Guns weren’t the only problem in my marriage but they were the final straw

Jan 19 • Rebecca Agiewich

Object-ives #17: The Secret in the Sugar Bowl

I wasn’t saving for a rainy day; I was building a raft to escape a flood

Jan 2 • Argelia salmon

I Found Treasures and a Husband in a Thrift Store, in Varying Levels of Pre-Loved Conditions

Why I love thrifting as much in my forties as I did as a teenager

Nov 29, 2025 • Sara Knight Bidlack

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