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Why Writing Memoir Is a Gift

I Watched ‘General Hospital’ with My Mom Every Day as a Kid. It’s How I Learned About Rape—And I’m Still a Fan

Just Like Christmas

How Building a Lego Jesus Changed My Life

Object-ives #15: My Morbid Companion

News from Lake Brain-Be-Gone

Learning to Celebrate Myself

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Why I Went to the Boob Deck

The Shape of Grief

Boxing Makes Me Uncomfortable, and That’s Okay

Object-ives #14: The Soapstone Trinket Box That Holds Both Horror and Holiness

Why I Identify as a Gamer, Even Though I Play “Girlie Games”

Why Playing Pickleball Is My New Professional Litmus Test

Open Secrets Gift Guide for Readers and Writers

Truth Hurts: The Real Meaning of Christmas

Am I Food Insecure Because I Have Bulimia, Or Do I Have Bulimia Because I’m Food Insecure?

Hiding My Life as a Sex Worker Nearly Destroyed My Health

You Won’t See My Family Dynamics in a Hallmark Movie

I Found Treasures and a Husband in a Thrift Store, in Varying Levels of Pre-Loved Conditions

Object-ives #13: Forever, My Chatty Cathy

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How To Make Concessions When Writing Confessions

The Night I Lost My Father

When I’m Alone, I Try on All My Jeans

The Maternal Survival Instinct That Helps Me Handle Food Insecurity

Object-ives #12: The Owl Remains

Life Is in the Fine Details

The High Cost of Being Poor

How I Forgave Yoga

My Human Archive

Object-ives # 11: The Hardest Working Dress on the Planet

How I Survived the Cult of Mom

My Surprise Encounter with President Trump Near Mar-a-Lago

The Hips I Hated, Then Lost, Then Missed

The Exhausting Mathematics of Hunger While Receiving SNAP

The Powerful Way Celebrity Gravesites Help Me Cope with My Grief

Object-ives #10: The Shirt That Slayed Demons

I Cut Off My Mother. Now I’m Becoming Her

Truth Hurts: The Surprise Milestone I Reached When I Turned 50

I Really Wanted My Grandmother to Die

What’s Queer?

How to Earn $200 for Your Personal Essay on Food Insecurity

How Art Saved Me When My Brain Was Broken

Object-ives #9: The Garbage Pail Kid That Made Me Cry

Why My Friend’s Surprise Marriage Raised So Many Red Flags

There’s a Vegan at Your Dinner Table (P.S. It’s Me)

The Keys to Ghosting

How to Shatter a Marriage

Object-ives #8: The Powder Puff in My Drawer Smells Like the Ghost of My Grandmother

How to Find Your Voice as a Writer

WATCH: Q&A with Sonali Kolhatkar on Her Preventive Double Mastectomy, the BRCA Gene Mutation, Grief, Body Image, and Mental Health

Some People Collect Memories from Their Travels. I Collect Things I Didn’t Pay For

Object-ives #7: Why I Still Want a Delia’s Bucket Hat

Giving Up the Ghost

After Her Brain Surgery, I Was Terrified My Mom Would Never Be My Mom Again

Object-ives #6: An Ode to My IBM Selectric Typewriter

November 2025 Open Secrets Book Club Pick: 'Alligator Tears' by Edgar Gomez

Confessions of a Breast Cancer Previvor

Object-ives #5: Put It On Again: Why I Love My Genesis Pin from Seventh Grade

WATCH: Exclusive Interview with 'The Loneliness Files' author Athena Dixon for Open Secrets Book Club

Truth Hurts: Scrolling at Night Is Cooking My Brain

Billy Blanks, I Love You: Help Me Get the Body of My Dreams

Object-ives #4: How My Diaries Have Helped Me Build a Lifetime of Words

Joy Is Year-Round

Wanted: An All-American Family

Object-ives #3: Why I Chat Regularly to a Toy Turtle

How to Write More Compelling Memoirs and Personal Essays by Embracing Messy Middles

How Hurricane Katrina Upended My Family’s Life

Object-ives #2: Art That Toasts to a Friendship Beyond Most

In the Patriarchy, No One Can Hear You Scream

Sphynx Cat: How I Learned to Appreciate Having Alopecia

The Reality of Being a Flight Attendant

September 2025 Open Secrets Book Club Pick: 'The Loneliness Files' by Athena Dixon

From Dropout to Journalist…In Prison

How Firefighting Saved My Life

I Was a Bigoted Speech Therapist

Is ADHD Why I Have Trouble Taking Real Vacations?

Watch: Q&A with Brenden O’Donnell on Dating a Gay Catholic Celibate Man, Relationships, and Spirituality

I’m Childfree, But Not by Choice

Radical Pleasure: Why I Keep a Good Things Jar

How to Respond to People Who Read What You Write

Big News: New Managing Editor, Book Club, Live Q&As, and Paid Subscriber Chats

An Extremely Close Encounter with a Gay Catholic Celibate

Object-ives #1: 'The Compleat Astrologer’s Sun-Signs Guide' Is My Most Treasured Book

Not Sure If He’s the One? Take Him to Taco Bell

Paid Call for Submissions for Personal Essays by Humans About the Human Experience (No AI Writing Allowed)

In Grief, Mornings Were the Most Difficult Part of My Day Until I Remembered This

How ADHD Turns Success into Failure

Andrea Gibson Saved My Life with Their Instagram Updates on Their Cancer Journey

Sometimes It’s Not Jealousy. It Just May Be a Sign to Redirect

Why Your “Failed” Essays Are Actually Working

Everything is Temporary, Except My Downloads

I Navigated the Grief of My Second Trimester Miscarriage by Widely Sharing My Story

The Summer Everything Got Hotter

As An Air Force Cadet, I Did Something Taboo

What If I Let My Intrusive Thoughts Win?

How Leaning into Solitude and Softness Isn’t Selfish, It’s Necessary

I'm a Thriller Author Who Figured Out the Secret to Actually Selling Books

Collecting the Dead: My Closet Is a Pet Cemetery

When Is Your Writing “Good Enough?”

Will My Sex Life Be Lost When I No Longer Have a Uterus?

My Father Was Never a Dad

Never a Bridesmaid, Kind of a Bride

Confronting a Second Grade Bully at Age Forty

The Ethics of Writing Essays About Real People

Relinquishing the Baggage from My First Marriage

I’m A Professional Tarot Reader Who Thinks “Twin Flames” Need to Be Snuffed Out

Radical Pleasure: Athena Dixon on How Stepping Outside of Your Body Is the Best Way to Gain Freedom

How I Joined a Cult Without Knowing It

I'm a Tesla-Driving Liberal

I Tried Speed Dating, and It Was Weird

Motherhood Is a Surprise Performance. This Was My Audition.

Is Water Quality So Bad That I Shouldn’t Let My Kids Play in Our Local Creeks?

Dear Daddy Advice Column May 2025: Am I a Bad Person Because I Can’t Forgive Someone Who Was Cruel to Me Now That They’re Dying?

I Botched Mother’s Day Again

911: What Led to My Bipolar Diagnosis

The ADHD Diaries: Why I Always Succumb to the Allure of Procrastination (and Then Hate Myself for It)

Meet Our Speakers for Our First Event, Personal Storytelling Summit Open Secrets Live on May 3 in New York

How Painting a Mural for My Baby’s Early Life Made Me a Better Doctor for Patients at the End of Theirs

How to Fill Your Creative Well as a Writer

Lights, Policy, Climate Action!

The Ties that Bind: Rape as a Job Hazard

Radical Pleasure: Athena Dixon on How Anger is a Necessary Part of Pleasure

My Body is a Traitor, So I Was Prescribed the Weight-Loss Drug Zepbound

My Online Gaming Addiction Started with Playing Scrabble on Facebook

My Three Great Loves Are My Record Collection, My Dog, and My Husband

BIG GIVEAWAY To Celebrate Two Years of Publishing Powerful Personal Essays!

Dear Daddy Advice Column April 2025: I Have an OnlyFans Account and Don't Know Whether to Tell My Boyfriend About It

How I Realized I’m Asexual

What It Feels Like to Live in “Satan’s Ashtray” During Smoke Season

Silencing the Inner Critic to Get Your Words on the Page

How an ADHD Memoir Helped Me Stop Feeling Guilty About Not Promoting My Short Story Collection

How a Health Scare Led Me to Love My Liver

Radical Pleasure: How Embracing Joy Helped Me Overcome Fear

How to Be a Caregiver to Aging, Difficult Parents

As a Mom of a Sick Child, I Couldn’t Bear to Lose My Child’s Stuffed Bunny

Dear Daddy Advice Column March 2025: Do You Need an MFA to Get Your Novel Published?

How an Adoption-Focused Instagram Account Helped Me Feel Seen

Finding the Funny, Writing the Truth

He-Man’s Ripped Muscles Fueled My Eating Disorder and Body Dysmorphia

Radical Pleasure: How to Reconceptualize Valentine’s Day, Love, and Romance

I'm a Single Black American Woman Dating in Europe

The ADHD Diaries: It's Amazing I've Ever Accomplished Anything Because I'm Always Distracted

Maybe I Am Lovable

Cold Comfort: On Learning to Love Cold-Water Swimming

Dear Daddy Advice Column February 2025: How to Navigate Ethical Non-Monogamy and Polyamory

The Romanticization of the Organic Meet Cute

I’m 33, and I’m Deeply, Deeply Tired of Being Single

Radical Pleasure, Volume 1

From Abortion to Acupuncture

How to Get Your Personal Essay Published in Open Secrets Magazine

Paid Call for Personal Essays on Climate Change and Climate Issues

Writing Queer Romance as an Exploration of My Own Queerness

Digging in the Dirt: Facing My Mother’s Hoarder House

Early Bird Tickets on Sale Now for Open Secrets Live on May 3, 2025 in New York City

How I Learned to Be Vulnerable After Growing Up in a Religious Cult

Dear Daddy Advice Column, January 2025: How to Figure Out If You're Straight or Bisexual